{"id":3189,"date":"2019-04-18T08:00:28","date_gmt":"2019-04-18T12:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nacacadmitted.wpengine.com\/wordpress\/?p=3189"},"modified":"2019-04-16T12:17:40","modified_gmt":"2019-04-16T16:17:40","slug":"member-view-ditch-the-college-admission-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/2019\/04\/18\/member-view-ditch-the-college-admission-stress\/","title":{"rendered":"Member View: Ditch the College Admission Stress"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3190\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3190\" style=\"width: 788px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3190\" src=\"http:\/\/nacacadmitted.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/family-stress-tips.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"788\" height=\"443\" srcset=\"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/family-stress-tips.jpg 788w, https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/family-stress-tips-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/family-stress-tips-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 788px) 100vw, 788px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3190\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">iStock<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The college search and application process can be a stressful time for families and students. But there are ways to manage this stress and anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>Sherri Geller, co-director of college counseling at\u00a0Gann Academy (MA), recently shared her stress management tips <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishboston.com\/how-to-stay-calm-during-college-admissions-time\/\">with JewishBoston<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>One of her top tips? Meeting with your college counselor.<\/p>\n<p>Geller recommended having at least three meetings during a student\u2019s junior year, so the counselor can get to really know the student. Counselors know the process and have details about colleges and universities that a student wouldn\u2019t. Use them as a resource, she stressed.<\/p>\n<p>She also encouraged students to think beyond specific schools when starting the college search process. \u201cThink in buckets,\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishboston.com\/how-to-stay-calm-during-college-admissions-time\/\">she said.<\/a> The buckets can be geographical, school size, etc., and they can help to narrow down the pool.<\/p>\n<p>If a student is denied admittance to a school, it\u2019s ok for families to be upset and disappointed. But, she said, make sure you are disappointed <em>for<\/em> them, not <em>at<\/em> them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrieve,\u201d Geller said. Then it\u2019s \u201cmove on to Plan B.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She also wants families and students to remember that admission decisions aren\u2019t an indictment of the student.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMany colleges have institutional priorities that aren\u2019t public. Let\u2019s say a school that wants to be 50-50 female\/male was 60\/40 last year. This year, if you\u2019re a male, it will help you a lot,\u201d she said. \u201cOthers have priorities around SAT scores. Others need an oboe player for the orchestra.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Read <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jewishboston.com\/how-to-stay-calm-during-college-admissions-time\/\">Geller\u2019s full list of tips<\/a> and check out NACAC\u2019s resources for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nacacfairs.org\/learn\/apply\/how-to-cope-with-anxiety-in-the-admission-process\/\">coping with anxiety<\/a> in the admission process.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ashley Dobson is NACAC\u2019s senior communications manager for content and social media. You can reach her at <a href=\"mailto:adobson@nacacnet.org\">adobson@nacacnet.org<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The college search and application process can be a stressful time for families and students. But there are ways to manage this stress and anxiety. Sherri Geller, co-director of college counseling at\u00a0Gann Academy (MA), recently shared her stress management tips with JewishBoston.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,23,20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-college-admission","category-college-readiness","category-importance-of-school-counselors"],"featured_image_src":null,"featured_image_src_square":null,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ashley Dobson","author_link":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/author\/ashley-dobson\/"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/peWmJq-Pr","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3189\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/admitted.nacacnet.org\/wordpress\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}